A 35-year-old woman who is on her fourth marriage has revealed that she’s convinced this one is going to last, as she “actually loves him”.
Sarah, who proudly boasts in her social media bios that she is a “3x divorcee”, has hit back at trolls who judge her lifestyle choices.
Taking to TikTok, the bride-to-be explained that when she was 18, she began dating a soldier who found out he was going to be stationed in Korea.
As she had strict parents, Sarah was “chomping at the bit for freedom”, so she married her man, so that she could move to Korea with him.
Unfortunately, after about a year, things went downhill, as her first husband “stopped taking showers and brushing his teeth“.
“I decided I’m way too young for this, so I left him in November 2011”, she said.
After leaving Korea, Sarah, who is originally from Chicago, moved to North Carolina, where she became involved with a chef at the restaurant where she worked.
The relationship quickly became abusive, so she started drinking heavily, which is when she met husband number two.
“I was in such a dark place and making really bad decisions, and when I met husband number two, he felt safe, and that’s why I did it”, she explained.
However, just a few months into her second marriage she realised she had made a mistake, and filed for divorce.
A year later, when she was 24, she met a man who was five years older than her, and seemed financially secure.
She revealed that he was quite a jealous person, and that “nobody really liked him”, but her family tolerated him, as he was the “only decent guy”, she had ever been with.
After a year and a half of dating, the pair got engaged, and in 2017, she tied the knot for the third time.
“At the time, I did think I was really in love with all of these guys”, she said.
“Obviously I didn’t know what love really was”.
Looking back at her pictures from this wedding, Sarah revealed that she can tell that all of the guests had no idea why the pair of them were getting married.
Signs your relationship is heading for a divorce
- Persistent Communication Breakdowns
Constant misunderstandings, arguments, or a complete lack of meaningful conversation can signal deep-seated issues. - Emotional Distance
Feeling like roommates rather than partners, with a noticeable lack of intimacy or emotional connection. - Frequent Criticism and Contempt
Regularly criticising each other and showing contempt, such as sarcasm, eye-rolling, or mocking, can erode the relationship’s foundation. - Unresolved Conflicts
Recurrent arguments about the same issues without any resolution can indicate deeper incompatibilities. - Loss of Trust
Trust is crucial in any relationship. If it’s been broken and cannot be rebuilt, it may be a sign that the relationship is in trouble. - Different Life Goals
Significant differences in future aspirations, such as career goals, lifestyle choices, or family planning, can create insurmountable divides. - Avoidance
Preferring to spend time apart rather than together, whether through work, hobbies, or social activities, can indicate a desire to escape the relationship. - Lack of Support
Feeling unsupported, whether emotionally, financially, or practically, can lead to feelings of isolation and resentment. - Financial Disagreements
Constantly arguing about money, spending habits, or financial priorities can strain the relationship. - Infidelity
Whether physical or emotional, infidelity can be a major breach of trust and a sign of deeper issues in the relationship. - Changes in Affection
A noticeable decrease in affection, physical touch, or romantic gestures can indicate a loss of connection.
The lack of intimacy started very quickly after their nuptials, which led to Sarah gaining weight as a coping mechanism.
Her third husband was jealous and constantly put her down, but she decided to “stick it out”, as she knew that she would feel like a failure if she got divorced for a third time.
However, after her dad sat her down and explained that “the right guy isn’t going to care that you’ve been married three times”, she decided to file for divorce for the third time.
Following her third divorce, Sarah was adamant that she never wanted to get married again, but two years ago, she met Kevin at a wedding.
The pair are now in a “happy and secure relationship”, and Sarah will walk down the aisle for the fourth time in 2026.
“I’m actually in love with this one”, she said.
“Hopefully it does work out, and I don’t have to do this again”.
Sarah’s (@saruh_fe) has likely left many open-mouthed, as it has gone viral, racking up 956,000 views on the video sharing platform.
TikTok users raced to the video’s comments section to share their thoughts on her unique relationship history.
One person said: “You know you don’t have to marry everyone you meet though right?”
A second person said: “I’m 37 and never married, and I cannot understand how people find multiple people to marry and divorce.
“I can’t find one that I would marry.”
A third person said: “Being divorced multiple times, is actually soo chic.”
