A YOUNG mum has slammed “mean” parents on the school run, who she claims just “look me up and down.”
When Ella Eastwood first started taking her daughter to school, she expected to smile at the school mums and have them smile back at her.
However, the reality was far different to what she expected.
Ella revealed that whenever she says hello to the mums, they just ignore her, even the ones whose kids her daughter are friends with.
“There’s one mum that sort of says ‘you alright?’ but if she’s with the other mums, she won’t tale to me”, she fumed in a video posted to her TikTok channel.
“They’re so mean!”
As the rest of the mums are older than her, Ella expected them to be more welcoming and friendly.
However, she said the other mums are in a “clique” and are “so nasty”.
“I just want to drop her off at the school, and walk out without everyone looking me up and down like I’ve done something!”
Ella’s video quickly went viral, racking up over 116,000 views on the video sharing platform.
TikTok users raced to the video’s comments section to share their thoughts, with many sharing similar experiences.
One person said: “I work as a nanny and school pick up can be horrible.
“I get so many dirty looks.
“One of the mums once opened my car door without asking, telling me to move over so she could park next to me.”
A second person said: I hated the school run, some of them are so clique and unfriendly.”
A third person chimed in: “I’ve even spoken to the teacher about it.
“People are so weird.”
A fourth added: “They’re a bunch of school mums acting like children themselves.
What to wear on the school run
PTA Chairwoman Emma Kent’s School Run Style Tips:
- Avoid the Gym Gear Trap:
- Change out of workout clothes for the afternoon pick-up to avoid looking lazy or unhygienic.
- Leave Pyjamas at Home:
- Never turn up at school in pyjamas as it suggests a lack of effort and can lead to unflattering labels.
- Be Cautious with Bold Fashion Choices:
- Avoid leopard-print leggings and mixing boho pieces with animal print. Stick to styles that suit you best.
- Carry an Emergency Kit:
- Keep a spare top or nice jacket in the car for unexpected spills or stains, and oversized sunglasses to hide tired eyes.
- Embrace Bargains:
- Proudly share thrift finds but avoid second-hand pyjamas or swimsuits without hygiene stickers.
- Don’t Be a Copycat:
- Avoid copying another mum’s style too closely to prevent gossip. Praise the other mum’s taste if it happens accidentally.
- Dress Age-Appropriately:
- Avoid overly revealing outfits and stick to classy, not trashy, looks, especially if over 35.
- Always Wear a Bra:
- Ensure you’re wearing a bra to avoid awkward conversations with teachers and unwanted attention.
- Choose Jeans Carefully:
- Avoid low-slung skinny jeans that create a muffin top. Opt for mom jeans for a flattering and comfortable fit.
- Beware of School Gate Gossips:
- Avoid showing up in scruffy clothing or with wet hair as there are always mums at the gates who will notice.
- Brag About Your Bag:
- Use a stylish yet practical tote bag instead of a bag for life from a supermarket.
- Ditch Crocs and Socks:
- Avoid pairing Crocs with socks. Opt for versatile Chelsea boots for a stylish and comfortable look.
“I don’t even bother talking to anyone at all.
“I drop my kids off and leave.
“I don’t care about making friends with mean women at all.”